Dating and hes disappeared
We stayed in sporadic touch during this time and finally agreed to meet back in October to just say hi.He had been very depressed and lonely and when he saw the "new" me he immediately wanted me back.Then recently he got a job offer back in his home state of SC where his family all lives.He takes it and I just assume that we will all go together, once he proposes. Our affection and intimacy wanes and I begin to wonder if he even LIKES me anymore.I tried to bring "us" up a couple times before he left but he said he needed time to think so I gave him space. Love, Jane Do you have any words of advice or encouragement for our beautiful friend Michelle? Want to learn more about bringing bringing him in closer (instead of him pulling away)?Needless to say, he left for SC without a word about us. Join our mailing list by clicking the button below, and I'll send you my complimentary video and E-book "4 Proven Ways to Make Him ADORE You (Like He's Never Adored Anyone Before!
During a period where he was dealing with some major work challenges (last August) we broke up because he was just unable to be a good partner to me with everything else going on.I still love him very much but I am beginning to understand why we can't or shouldn't be together. But it'll come from him and then you can decide where you're at. Sometimes people think they can do something, but their issues are so great, they can't. Can you accept that he probably doesn't even know himself? He literally walked away from 2 1/2 years without a word about why or anything like "thanks for the good times." There wasn't a single conversation and it all just seems so unresolved. But he just wasn't there and couldn't bring himself to admit that to you or let you down or hurt you or deal with that kind of conflict or confrontation. I know it's hard to not have that last conversation, but clearly, he didn't want it and couldn't do it. He talked of marriage in May, wedding rings, being a step dad to my 14 year son, etc.We went on vacations and spent lots of great time together.