How to have a good christian dating relationship
I’m not claiming to have this down, or to always get it right.
In fact, I feel able to talk and write about this topic precisely because I have got it wrong so many times and God has consistently shown me grace and turned my mistakes into good.
There is no need looking for Miss right if you are not alright yourself.
I know I have said it many times before, but it can’t be overemphasized.
Having external mentors and checks is exemplified all over the bible and is key for maintaining our standards and values in relationships.
So get a mentor, and stay very transparent and open to Him or her.
Women are moved much easier by what they hear and you don’t want your relationship and feelings to move faster than your level of commitment.
Rushing emotions are caused by words and are often a precursor to sexual relations, because the mind is the greatest sex organ.
God makes things work for your good, and that includes your dating life.
If you are at all serious about keeping your values intact, you will hold off on certain kinds of conversations and icy talk.
Stay within the kinds of conversations that help you decipher the kind of person you are dating and if you are willing to commit long term to such a person.
If values agree at both ends, your chances are tremendously increased.
Some Christian Men have not even taken off in the dating game mostly because they took the last tip to mean that they had to go all CIA on the ladies they meet. It is plain stupid laying out a list of premeditated questions on your first date, when there are a lot of great conversations to be had on a first date that help you discover the person more and not appear weird. dates should be fun, don’t turn it into an inquisition.