Lonely person for dating
We are not always going to find friends in every situation we find ourselves in, sometimes it’s going to just be a case of keeping busy with what we are doing, taking a book to read, and then going home afterwards.
This is not failure – the more we can take away the pressure from ourselves of having to try and find someone who likes us in every situation – the more we can begin to realise that being loved by Jesus, and thought important and significant by him is enough for us in some situations to free us to feel okay about time spent alone.
It's not just lonliness but all those feelings with lonliness that I deal with. I don’t have anybody besides my family who cares but I thought it would be nice to share with you guys!
I'm just some guy that really wants to cuddle and have sex and feel close to someone. Edit: Wow, I did NOT expect this to get so many comments.
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Just look at the side of the subreddit on desktop, and the chatroom will be there for you to join!
Thank you all so much for wishing me a happy birthday! 💜Aside from the fact that if it was this simple then this sub and all related subs would have no reason to exist of course.
I barely ever had any social interactions throughout almost my whole teens and I used to think I was mentally disabled and would never be good enough for anything throughout my whole life because of it.
When you don’t know someone very well, think in advance of questions you can ask that will help them to see you are interested in them as a person.
Once you know what they spend their time doing, instead of just asking them if they had a good day – ask them “what makes a good day or a bad day for you? ” Another question you could try and ask is, “have you ever thought what you would like to spend your time doing if you didn’t have to earn money to live”, explain that you were thinking about this the other day and tell them what you decided – but be brief and don’t give too much detail – and then ask how they would like to spend their time if they could choose?